My friend

[Bigdog]

My and my mate are close friends, we often do a lot together. He often hugs and kisses me which has made me feel a bit uneasy. I do like him, but i just wish there was boundaries, yet at the same time i do find it rather flattering and maybe slightly thrilling. He actually dry humped me and i could feel his hard cock touch.

We often go for dinners out together, but is this a relationship i am in? Yet it's possible to go several days without contact with each other. I feel so confused and worried people are going to think we are dating?

Any advice?

[Fred]

You need to establish the boundaries, and that depends on what you want the relationship to be. If you find his actions thrilling, that's one indicator. If you are"worried" that people will think you are dating, that's another clue. He may be as uncertain about the relationship as you are.