Video and discussion: psychology of needing to pee leading to problems

[googlism2008]

Overcoming the need to pee おしっこ感じガマン
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcDEfplZa-w

Something slightly different. This is about a man who always went pee every 15 minutes, ever since he had an accident in his pants.

Japanese, with English subtitles.

[Mod note: This topic has been split from the Master Video List thread.]

[Brian]

Overcoming the need to pee おしっこ感じガマン
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcDEfplZa-w

Something slightly different. This is about a man who always went pee every 15 minutes, ever since he had an accident in his pants.

Japanese, with English subtitles.

Very moving. Courageous of him to go for this coaching in his situation. I hope his life improves.

I love the coach telling him not to worry, even if he wets himself, because it just doesn't matter.

[Fred]

Overcoming the need to pee おしっこ感じガマン
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcDEfplZa-w

Something slightly different. This is about a man who always went pee every 15 minutes, ever since he had an accident in his pants.

Japanese, with English subtitles.

The need to pee IS partly psychological. Consider the common problem of increased urgency just when you reach home. I've noticed that when I'm busy I don't notice even when my bladder is fairly full. I remember years ago chaperoning a school field trip to the State House, and at one point I noticed a single-fixure toilet. I asked the teacher if we should ask if anyone had to go and she told me not to mention it - they were fine, but if I mentioned the toilet then they'd ALL have to go, and we'd waste a half an hour. She was right.
While this video is more-or-less staged, I think it is well presented and makes a good point.

[Brian]

[...]
While this video is more-or-less staged, I think it is well presented and makes a good point.

Indeed, it's a good point, and your own comments about the psychological part of needing to pee are very true. When you say the video is more-or-less staged, I guess you are just referring to the fact that the guy is artificially taken to the park and encouraged not to go and pee, right? It seems to me that his problem, and his emotions when he's coached about it, are perfectly genuine. Just thought I'd mention that because I think the video is well worth watching.

[googlism2008]

My random thoughts:

1. Like Brian, I particularly liked the fact that the coach said that it is okay to pee yourself. While it is a delight for those with our fetish, I also think that in the larger scheme of things, while we can minimize the risk of bad things happening, we must accept some residual risk in order to carry on with our lives normally, and not getting overly paranoid over them.

2. I believe that the story is at least 90% true. And if the problem is true, there is not much of a need for the producer to massively exaggerate the story. In at least some cases, his urges show up in his body language, such as walking fast and not being able to stand still, which makes me think that it is genuine. And as Brian said, his emotions.

3. This guy seems to be pee shy, not being able to pee despite saying he is 100% full. Was he able to go before the end of the clip, and if not, what happens after the clip?

4. This video brings up a particular psychological problem, perhaps one that is not well understood by the general public, to the forefront. Hopefully people will understand this kind of problem better, and be more understanding and supportive to people with such problems.