Lads Pissing

Hello all! I'm a new member here, but not new to the desperation community

I first discovered my love of men about to burst back in the early 2000s while sitting at a Starbucks.

I was reading and enjoying a coffee, completely unaware of the life-changing event about to take place in the form of a middle-aged man. He entered the Starbucks rather quickly, and I could tell right away that something was up. He approached the counter and stood behind the woman that was ordering. He was rocking back and forth, bending over every few seconds; an obvious full-on adult pee-pee dance. My heart started racing out of nowhere and I couldn't stop watching. It was shortly his turn in line and he stepped up to the counter, asked some questions, answered some, and eventually had his order placed. This entire time he was literally bent over the counter, squeezing himself, dancing back and forth, completely unable to stand still. It wasn't until AFTER he finished placing his order that he asked where the bathroom was and ran off down the hall.

I didn't know that a desperation fetish existed at the time, so I was in complete shock about the fact that I had been unable to take my eyes off to this man and that my heart was literally pounding in my chest (as it is now recalling the story!) I remember going back to my apartment after to try to calm down and eventually finding our little community online. Almost 20 years later, here I am, still loving all of these stories and videos.

Thanks for everything you all share!

At middle age, he may have had prostate issues that can cause sudden urgency. He may have been accustomed to it and wasn't going to let it interfere with placing his coffee order first! I'll bet that Starbucks - a haven for coffee drinkers - often has customers desperate for their rest room.

Or, then again, he might just have got "caught short" on that particular occasion like we all do now and then.

Fascinating that he felt he had to queue and give his order first even though it was so bad he was dancing about! I love your description.

Looking back on it, that's what I find strange as well, that he waited and placed his order before running to the bathroom, despite having to go so badly.

The least likely explanation, but one I rather like, is that the guy just enjoyed holding it…..

He may have been asking for the restroom access code.

All in all a great sighting!

Welcome to The Forum GottaPeeNYC. Nice to have you with us, and hope you enjoy your stay with us.

These fleeting moments are precious things to us when they're spotted and can be revelled in, examined and probed with others for such thoughts, feelings, reasons, moments, and excitable urges that sometimes need to be kept hidden from others.

Indeed, a good sighting.

Thank you for posting it and hopefully you will enjoy being with us and reading what others here have seen, and have written about.

If you come across unfamiliar terms or phrases, ask, as we like to help. We have various translators here that include the common options of American/English and they mistakes they make.

For example. I'm in Australia on holiday and over here 'thongs' are sandals...

As an aside most coffee shops in Aus don't have toilets but might share one with other stores or ask customers to use the public toilets on the street outside or perhaps down the block!!! But there are a lot more public toilets in a good state of repair and cleanliness.

Such a great account! I also have desperation memories which span at least 25 years!!