Lads Pissing

Most of us are probably observant of the urination habits of others. Who have you known, be it a family member, friend or stranger who either peed an impressive amount or who drank quite a lot and didn't pee for a very long time? This might either be a one-time incident or a habitual thing.

Yes, I know someone like that.
It happened a couple of years ago or so; a friend of mine went to an amusement park with some other guys and when he came back, he told me about their day there.
I was genuinely interested in the descriptions of the rollercoasters and such but suddenly he randomly said out of nowhere: “I managed to make it the entire drive there and half of the day in the park without using the toilet.”
That interested me even more than the rollercoasters.
I know that he has a larger than average bladder and can go for hours on end without peeing while keeping normally hydrated, but this comment was just mind-blowing for me.
The drive to the park had been around 5 hours, maybe 5 and a half and since they arrived early, I assume that ‘half of the day in the park’ meant a range from 6-8 hours.
That would make either 11, 12 or 13 hours for him without taking a piss once!
I wanted to enquire further, I really wished I could have.
But I feared that such questions would reveal that I was overly interested in that topic so I just said something along the lines of: “Crazy, but it isn’t that beneficial for your health.”
He said he knew that but he wasn’t doing something like this every day after all.
(I realise just now what a boring and strange response that was - like I was trying to give him a lecture . But I just didn’t know what to say in that situation without revealing my interest).
Then we continued to talk about something else and the topic was forgotten.
But I know that he does ‘something like this’ every day.
Maybe not 11-13 hours but I’ve been spending enough time with him to know that he can easily go 8+ hours without urinating regularly.

He always says that he’s afraid of catching diseases in public toilets which is reasonable to an extent but as a male he hardly touches anything apart from himself so I never really understood.
He’s willingly putting himself through discomfort rather than just using a public toilet just because he’s super, super afraid of germs.
And I noticed it’s hard to spot any desperation, he can literally sit next to you on the sofa while watching a film and then suddenly jump up, announcing: “I need to piss!” and then dashing to the toilet.
I often saw him doing that and I’m pretty sure that it’s often a ‘Damn, I don’t want to pee right now but if I don’t go, I’ll wet myself’ situation.
I’m very sure that he’s leaked into his pants more than once but of course I cannot know for certain.

Interesting friend you have there, Simon.

A friend of mine, someone I'm not in touch with anymore, was a bit similar. We never talked about the subject, but I almost never saw him use the toilet. On one memorable occasion we spent a whole day hiking up and down a mountain in Wales. I had to pee at least twice while out in the open air and was hoping he would too so that it wouldn't be just me, but both times he just waited politely while I let loose. And he never peed in what must have been about 8-10 hours of the day, car journeys to and from the mountain included.

The same was always true during other activities on other occasions. But there was one day when we were playing table tennis together where I lived and, very suddenly, he stopped in the middle of a knock-up, put the bat and ball down, said "I've got to pee", and ran off to the toilet. I'm surprised he knew where it was actually, despite having come round to my place many times before, because that was the first time he'd ever used it!

So I can only guess he was doing something similar to what your friend does, Simon. Maybe for the same reason (fear of germs) but I don't know.

I can think of one more reason for your friend's excessive holding, Brian. Of course I don't know him and can't say anything about his personality but maybe he's shy?
I'm just very aware of that because I often experience it myself.
I've always been shy about asking for the toilet, feeling unnecessarily embarrassed about it, I don't know why, though.
It's better with close friends, I know where the toilet is in their houses and can easily excuse myself.
But if I'm somewhere for the first time and don't know where it is, I can hardly get myself to ask.
And then even if I know where it is, the first couple of times it is still difficult to just excuse myself and go.
Maybe your friend felt the same way.

Simonwater, The fact that he told you he had held his pee for half a day might be because he was proud of doing it. While he may be using his fear of germs to explain it, that would be a more socially acceptable reason than admitting that he gets a sense of pride in the accomplishment, much like an athlete achieving a personal goal. He may even enjoy the sensations from a full bladder. Brian, the same may apply to your friend.

Fred wrote: ↑13 Apr 2025, 14:30 Simonwater, The fact that he told you he had held his pee for half a day might be because he was proud of doing it. […]

I think it’s a mix. He’s definitely afraid of germs, he’s not using that as a fake excuse. But he’s also proud of his ability to hold it for a long time for sure. On a few occasion I’ve heard him saying: "Well, I've got a big / strong bladder." I guess he thinks: As long as I’m physically able to hold it, I don’t need to bother going to the toilet.

SimonWater wrote: ↑13 Apr 2025, 17:44

Fred wrote: ↑13 Apr 2025, 14:30 Simonwater, The fact that he told you he had held his pee for half a day might be because he was proud of doing it. […]

I guess he thinks: As long as I’m physically able to hold it, I don’t need to bother going to the toilet.

I like people with that attitude, and I think my "closet holder" neighbor has it.

Yeah, have observed plenty of what appears to be deliberate and intentional holding.
I'm most 'intrigued' when older gentlemen do it. I know that depends how you define "old", but essentially I mean just not young lads who are inexperienced, don't know what they are doing, or are inclined to miscalculate their limits. Gentlemen old enough to have experience, know their limits, know what they are doing. The hold seems more deliberate and intentional, potentially enjoyed (and well, it sometimes probably is, I do it, I know my limits and what feels good).

From Just the other week:
I stopped by an establishment on the way home, I’d say about 19:30. There was a group (some younger dudes in business attire, a female companion, and a middle-aged bloke, significant stature, wearing dress shoes, the kind that give you presence, make you look bigger than you are, make a lot of noise when walking, and let people know you are there) drinking and chatting. They kept buying rounds and I became aware that all except the middle-aged bloke visited the facilities, some multiple times. At one point the middle-aged bloke got up and I thought he’d go, but no, he just went and bought more rounds and kept on drinking. Eventually around 22:00 the younger dudes said their good buys and left. I was also intending to leave soon but was intrigued, the remaining party got up and I thought for sure he’ll go now, blokes been drinking rounds for nearly 3 hours and not peed. No, they moved to different table, bought more rounds and kept going.
It was about 23:30 the bloke stood up, this time with obvious purpose and stance, then walked briskly (no longer the leisurely stroll, body language was clear, it was obviously time) to the facilities.
It was time to leave, I had never intended to stay this late, but was so intrigued. It seemed a very deliberate and intentional (and impressive, that’s a good 4 hours, and while drinking rounds) hold, there was ample opportunity to have unloaded anytime prior, but we waited until busting anyway.
[The salacious part: I'm imagining him taking a nice big stance back from the trough in those dress shoes and having a great time spraying the stainless steel like a hose (I've seen plenty of guys do it, it is not entirely uncommon behaviour, I've done it)]

Strangers though, I don't know, maybe we should try and befriend? Especially pubs and bars, some are discreet, but others, I've even overheard more openly conversing about holding it /or how good the first one feels (and even then leave and deliberately take a huge piss along a fence at the end of an alley)

Have plenty more holding observations, this just happened recently, so it was on my mind. Will post more in time.

ThePTNN202 wrote: ↑29 May 2025, 06:33
It was about 23:30 the bloke stood up, this time with obvious purpose and stance, then walked briskly (no longer the leisurely stroll, body language was clear, it was obviously time) to the facilities.
It was time to leave, I had never intended to stay this late, but was so intrigued. It seemed a very deliberate and intentional (and impressive, that’s a good 4 hours, and while drinking rounds) hold, there was ample opportunity to have unloaded anytime prior, but we waited until busting anyway.
[The salacious part: I'm imagining him taking a nice big stance back from the trough in those dress shoes and having a great time spraying the stainless steel like a hose (I've seen plenty of guys do it, it is not entirely uncommon behaviour, I've done it)]

Strangers though, I don't know, maybe we should try and befriend? Especially pubs and bars, some are discreet, but others, I've even overheard more openly conversing about holding it /or how good the first one feels (and even then leave and deliberately take a huge piss along a fence at the end of an alley)

Have plenty more holding observations, this just happened recently, so it was on my mind. Will post more in time.

It sounds like this fellow has developed a large bladder capacity and perhaps enjoys holding to its limit. He had ingested large amounts of alcoholic beverage and had ample opportunities to pee, but he chose to hold it. He well might be posting on this or other omorashi site!

ThePTNN202 wrote: ↑29 May 2025, 06:33 He well might be posting on this or other omorashi site!

Yes, well, exactly, just look at the membership here and on any other site, there's a lot of guys that are at least curious, but keep to themselves, and that's OK.
The point is, this is not an uncommon observation (I'll write about more eventually), simply the most recent.
In similar situations I've sort of found more confirmation with some sort of end 'result'. For example stories posted elsewhere about suspecting, then gone to the facilities after and finding the stainless steel absolutely saturated, pee sprayed all across it (so confirms: bloke was absolutely full, and presumably enjoyed releasing if he made the most of it and sprayed everywhere like a game).
In hindsight I'm sorry I didn't 'investigate' in this instance, it was just way later than I had intended and I had to make the last train. With confirmation I might be more inclined to drop a subtle hint/clue on subsequent encounter to gage reaction.

Another story:
There were 2 mates I'd regularly encounter at a pub a long time ago, that I'm sure played off each other, to see who could hold the longest. One super tall, and one big and round, that I would have easily placed as probably being able to 'hold like a camel'. Again, not friends, or even acquaintances, just strangers I'd see regularly and acknowledge in passing. Maybe I should have made friends? They'd drink rounds all night and rarely use the facilities.
The confirmation: I overheard some banter one night where I'm sure one said to the other "you should still be holding on", maybe I misheard? Probably not, 2 subsequent sightings:
1. One night, no more than 50 metres up the road just after leaving. I virtually came face to face with the tall bloke unleashing an absolute torrent onto a tree trunk in the middle of the footpath, legs spread all the way apart, big wide stance (he was very tall, this lowered his height so his head would be out of the low branches), he just sort of sighs/groans and says "sorry mate" but continues, no shame or attempt to conceal what he was doing.
2. Big round dude leaves and walks down the alley opposite. Walking the same way just after, and in the shadows 50-100 metres ahead I see him turn towards the fence and I think I know what is happening
I remember the fence was absolutely soaked, there was a gap in it and and he'd pissed so powerfully through it that the brick wall on the other side of the fence was also drenched (absolute confirmation, he literally could/did hold it in like a camel and released it out fire hose).
These were impressive holds (I mean, probably a good 5 or so hours when they did hold out till the end, and while drinking rounds) and equally impressive pees (remembering the state that fence was left in, absolutely soaked all the way along and still dripping, still gets me going to this day). I'm sure it was some kind of deliberate rivalry, to see who would last the longest without using the facilities, and so upon leaving the competition was over and the flood gates were open.

To what extent this kind of behaviour is actually a kink or not, I think, is difficult to gage. Just scroll through a lot of non kink content/forums online (or even just listen to banter, some will openly talk about it), and you'll find plenty of content indicating a lot of guys just enjoy a really good piss (sometimes including deliberate hold) Generally. Plus boys will be boys, a lot of us just never grew out of playing naughty schoolboy piss games, plenty of guys given the choice would go piss along the fence anyway, just because they can, its more fun

Either way, a good impressive piss is just a mutually enjoyed male experience.