Sorry, Can I delete my comment if I’ve spoilt it for anyone? I’m really new on here and suspect my interests, or at least the level to which I’m willing to participate is/are still somewhat tame compared to other members.
For extra clarity, I also have vivid recollections of a distressing experience early on. Being in the company of another in a predicament. I already understood at that time that it can be pleasurable. In this case though, it was too much, he was actually in tears, serious discomfort and even pain, clearly no longer a willing participant. A ‘way out’ would have been perfectly feasible but unfortunately there was someone ‘in-charge’ failing to understand or act. I think, as a result, I find some distress in real situations that are too prolonged or become more extreme, especially if it’s not wanted. My mind wanders away from the imaginary fun of ‘what might have happened/maybe he liked it’ into ‘how did this really happen/what went wrong/what would I have done to help’.
Sorry again, and I hope this explains a bit better where I am at. My intention wasn't to spoil anyone's fun, but I think my own ‘let’s end it now’ point is at an earlier stage than others.
Yes, it's all good-humoured.
