Ages?

[FloodGate]

So, judging by this site, I am clearly a new pee desperation lover (19) compared to most of you. If no one minds me asking, how old are you guys and where were your first online or in person places to discuss this topic, I'm curious.

[Tytn]

I hope by your phrasing that you're new to this. Because if you're interested in desperation in people younger than 18 this is not the place for you.

However, if you mean it the other way around, quite a few of us are across a wide spread of ages. I've been into it since before I was 18 and back in those days there was very little internet access available so I was not able to expand my interests as much.

These days it's more capable, especially with local encryption, support networks, forums like these and for other fetishes as well.

Back then I was wrestling with lots of other complications and feelings in my life and managed to burn a few friendships where I shouldn't have done and pushed things the wrong way. I guess this is part of growing up.

You will soon find that if you successfully hide your interests from your friends then you get to see and hear more of your interest as some people shy away from such things. I remember many times when I have helped out friends from places spread around the countryside where they had gone to a party the night before, gone home with a friend who was now quite rural and ended up near hung over and had to drink a lot to rehydrate the next morning.

Then I picked them up for a 90-minute drive cross country to get them home They didn't know of such things and it encouraged certain encounters and experiences...

I would say now that you would do well to document your experiences, write them down, your thoughts, what you've seen and experienced and even make up stories of what you've seen to expand your interest and thoughts. By writing them down when I was younger I and repeatedly reminded of things that happened then of which my memory isn't the best now.

I tend to use programs like Microsoft Word to write it out, and things like TrueCrypt to create an encrypted drive system to store my thoughts and ideas away from prying eyes.

Whether you use Mac or Windows, or even some other system, I'm sure there are people around to get you started to look after your thoughts into text.

sorry. rambling...

[Brian]

Wish I was still 19 !
My age is on my profile if you really want to know. (You probably don't!)
I've been into M.desp/wetting as long as I can remember.
Before the days of the internet I think I only mentioned my interest to two other people, one of whom is my partner (who is another male, but sadly not into it!).
In the late 1990s I started to find the sites which were springing up. Most were largely F.desp/wetting (female) which doesn't interest me, but a few catered for us too. Then I found the predecessor of Tytn's site and it matched my interests exactly. When that became a pay-site and subsequently folded, Tytn set up his own one (with Fred and others on board too), and I joined that one after about two years. This site is the latest incarnation and still the only place on the net which I know which caters so exactly to what I like.

[FloodGate]

When I meant baby I meant new because I feel like I'm the youngest one here. I edited that for clarity.

[BottleBlaze]

Been into it for a long while now. But I am 22! Nice to hear
stories/sightings/etc. from others into this as well, especially those who might be more experienced than myself

[Wombat48]

Hi
Am 50 but young for my age in attitude and looks
Been into this since I was a teenager I guess, but only first used the internet for such purposes in 2006!

[Fred]

I'm the oldest one here, I suspect. My first computer was powered by whale oil and I used a quill pen instead of a keyboard. The Internet operated by smoke signals then. My interest was suppressed until I found others online who were like me.

[WantToPiss]

I'm also a pretty new piss lover (well I've been into it for a while but I just signed up to this site like 5 secs ago), and I'm just 18 haha so maybe the youngest of everyone! Hiii

[Brian]

I'm also a pretty new piss lover (well I've been into it for a while but I just signed up to this site like 5 secs ago), and I'm just 18 haha so maybe the youngest of everyone! Hiii

Welcome! It's really exciting whenever someone new joins us.

[Dazza88]

30 here, I have been into desperation since I can remember ever seeing it for the first time. This is the first site I have come across truly dedicated to it.